DON’T BE A FOOTBALL OF OTHERS OPINION!
DON’T BE A FOOTBALL OF OTHERS OPINION: We always bother about others opinion. This set of other people can vary based on the situation. From friends, classmates, teachers, professors, neighbours, family members, cousins to peers, bosses, spouses, etc etc and the list would go on. We all are actually afraid of criticism. Because of this fear – we don’t open up. We refrain from doing the wrong which is fair enough but we refrain from doing the right and constructive too. Let us take some of the daily examples. Many of us are very well trained bathroom singers but don’t sing in front of others, say in a gathering or among our own peers. Why do we feel shy? In college days, we have do have some credits allotted for courses which require presentations and interaction with the class? Why are we nervous? Why do we end up getting not so good scores? We are afraid of criticism. What happens when someone criticises you? A sudden raise in heart beat followed b...